5 Things Narcissists Hate the Most

DoctorRamani

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Discover the top 5 actions you might be taking that narcissists absolutely hate. Dr. Ramani breaks down the behaviors and responses that trigger narcissists and how they react to these actions. Learn how to identify and avoid these behaviors to protect yourself from manipulation and maintain healthy boundaries. Gain insights into narcissistic dynamics and empower yourself with strategies to handle interactions with narcissists effectively.

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  1. @TheRkymtnhigh

    The anger and rage is what I just can't and won't tolerate anymore

    222 likes

  2. @jolesliewhitten6545

    Narcissistic abuse almost finished me. I survived and left. It took years to recover, but I did.

    354 likes

  3. @sprice659ify

    "Entitlement is the core of Narcissism". You hit the nail on the head Dr. Amani.

    213 likes

  4. @meowpurrhissrwar

    They lose control of themselves when you take back your own control.

    410 likes

  5. @nursekathy4480

    Breathing is one of the things my narcs hate about me.

    853 likes

  6. @lyndacrossley9548

    It's taken me many years to realise that I have not fought for myself enough. Accepting myself is so healing.

    210 likes

  7. @wendypayne7693

    Had ZERO idea I was being abused until I joined a weekly women's prayer group and began to share "my week". They carefully explained to me I was being emotionally abused on a regular basis. Thank God for those women. I have slowly rebuilt my personality after 10 years of abuse.

    2.5K likes

  8. @Angelpea-o1o

    1. when you fail to make them feel special
    2. being rejected
    3. when you set boundaries
    4. when they lose control of you
    5. when you abandon them

    2.2K likes

  9. @kathybrem880

    My narc husband laughed at me when I joined our volunteer fire co. By the time I retired (to take care of his obese, alcoholic butt) I had been first aid capt fora long time. I was respected and treated very well by my fire fighting brothers. He hated it. Never attended the dinner when I got ‘firefighter of the year’ award. He was a classic narcissist. I never had a name to give it. I’m in shock to now start to understand why my life was so unhappy. After almost 50 years he died last year and I feel truly free!

    654 likes

  10. @itachi65ful

    Something I learnt about narcissists is that they don't seem to understand cause and effect.

    375 likes

  11. @irinacan3492

    "Many people in narcissistic relationships have shrunk themselves for years". That hit hard. It's so true.

    79 likes

  12. @through.a.barrel.she.breathes

    Wow your growth is something they can't tolerate - They can't control you. Hit hard.

    140 likes

  13. @BobTheSchipperke

    If you succeed at anything they will be super bummed out.

    135 likes

  14. @sherylbarker7103

    I was told by my sister who is a narc that boundaries were selfish and that I was the most selfish person in the world!

    96 likes

  15. @FrankieFendi

    This woman has single-handedly helped me start to heal at the age of 30.. realizing everything ..

    107 likes

  16. @precisiongrinder

    I love the line ”you’re unique, just like everyone else”.

    288 likes

  17. @merin797

    Dr. Ramani: After many months of struggle, I finally found a way to put this relationship into words:
    The presence of things that shouldn’t be there.
    And the absence of things that should be there.🙏

    670 likes

  18. @Trixie.2005

    Wow. To reject a narcissist, accept yourself

    282 likes

  19. @sync-j7c

    We're never fully equipped to handle these people

    1.1K likes

  20. @Jabepoma

    Dr. Ramani saved my life.....I watched her everyday and cried myself to sleep. The fact that I can re-watch these videos with no tears and in my eyes, is a big win. Thank you so much Dr. Ramani. I was in therapy for 15 years, and none of them were able to figure what I was telling them about my experiences...hang in there too long, but now I am so aware I could coach on narcissism.

    503 likes