Narcissists Aren't Victims. They're Just Cruel. | Dr. Peter Salerno
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00:00 In This Episode
01:21 Introducing Dr. Peter Salerno
02:24 Understanding Intent in Dangerous Behavior
04:55 The Role of Validation in Relationships
06:57 Cognitive Dissonance and Its Impact
08:41 The Myths of Trauma and Intent
12:11 Prenatal Environment and Personality Disorders
13:24 The Cause of Personality Disorders
16:45 Heritability of Dangerous Personality Types
18:24 Do Genes Load the Gun?
19:46 Genes, Traits, and Intention
21:20 What Makes Behavior Intentional?
24:55 How to Recognize Danger in Relationships
27:36 Recognizing Intent "Was My Saving Grace"
28:07 How George Simon Saved Peter Salerno
29:31 Does Genetics Invalidate Trauma?
34:49 Case Study: Narcissist with PTSD
37:20 Debunking the Trauma Argument
38:18 Brain Anatomy in Personality Disorders
41:21 Empathy: Cognitive vs. Affective
44:23 Patterns of Behavior in Cluster B Personality Disorders
45:14 Reality Distortion: Manipulation Tactics
47:37 Accountability in Abusive Relationships
48:36 How to Get Internal Justice
52:20 Are Narcissists Responsible for Abuse?
55:31 Traits (Red Flags) of a Dangerous Person
56:47 They Exploit Your Empathy
58:05 The Best Protection from Narcissists
59:13 Find Dr. Peter Salerno Online
59:45 Recovering Your Identity After Abuse
1:02:30 Further Recommendations
Do Narcissists abuse people on purpose? Dr. Peter Salerno shares his findings regarding intentional abuse.
Dr. Peter Salerno on genetics: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM
Dr. Robert Plomin on behavioral genetics: https://youtu.be/V_JF5wM40xw
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Narcissists Aren't Victims. They're Just Cruel. | Dr. Peter Salerno
Narcissists Aren't Victims. Cruelty Is Genetic. | Dr. Peter Salerno
https://brad-carr-2.kit.com/ac990df40a
00:00 In This Episode
01:21 Introducing Dr. Peter Salerno
02:24 Understanding Intent in Dangerous Behavior
04:55 The Role of Validation in Relationships
06:57 Cognitive Dissonance and Its Impact
08:41 The Myths of Trauma and Intent
12:11 Prenatal Environment and Personality Disorders
13:24 The Cause of Personality Disorders
16:45 Heritability of Dangerous Personality Types
18:24 Do Genes Load the Gun?
19:46 Genes, Traits, and Intention
21:20 What Makes Behavior Intentional?
24:55 How to Recognize Danger in Relationships
27:36 Recognizing Intent "Was My Saving Grace"
28:07 How George Simon Saved Peter Salerno
29:31 Does Genetics Invalidate Trauma?
34:49 Case Study: Narcissist with PTSD
37:20 Debunking the Trauma Argument
38:18 Brain Anatomy in Personality Disorders
41:21 Empathy: Cognitive vs. Affective
44:23 Patterns of Behavior in Cluster B Personality Disorders
45:14 Reality Distortion: Manipulation Tactics
47:37 Accountability in Abusive Relationships
48:36 How to Get Internal Justice
52:20 Are Narcissists Responsible for Abuse?
55:31 Traits (Red Flags) of a Dangerous Person
56:47 They Exploit Your Empathy
58:05 The Best Protection from Narcissists
59:13 Find Dr. Peter Salerno Online
59:45 Recovering Your Identity After Abuse
1:02:30 Further Recommendations
Do Narcissists abuse people on purpose? Dr. Peter Salerno shares his findings regarding intentional abuse.
Dr. Peter Salerno on genetics: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM
Dr. Robert Plomin on behavioral genetics: https://youtu.be/V_JF5wM40xw
Dr. Peter Salerno's book: https://amzn.to/4s3uUJ9
Dr. Peter Salerno on YouTube: @DrPeterSalerno
Brad's microphone: https://amzn.to/4jVOjqq
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Narcissists Aren't Victims. They're Just Cruel. | Dr. Peter Salerno
Narcissists Aren't Victims. Cruelty Is Genetic. | Dr. Peter Salerno
@martinaluisetti
They do it covertly because they know it's wrong...
506 likes
@Gruntology
That they know to try to conceal the abuse from outsiders is indicative of that they are well aware of that it's wrong and unacceptable.
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@EDS-zo8gx
If it's never intentional, people wouldn't be able to suppress it when it's socially inconvenient.
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@annekenney6914
It's pointless to argue with these demons because yes, for example, they know they disrespected you. That was the design.
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@junfan9748
So tired of the situation where manipulative cruel and evil people play the victim.
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@maryfowles807
They absolutely do it on purpose and also plan in advance.
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@MayFlowers-w7w
Finally!!!! People is waking up to the reality of narcissists! To call a narcissist a victim is a crime to truth and justice.
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@bonniegareau4073
I am a survivor of over six decades of non-stop abuse from four different narcissists. There is a demonic force within these individuals. Once you feel the destruction of this spiritually, and actually see Satan in their eyes, you know exactly what you are dealing with. There is nothing on this earth that feels more revolting and terrifying within your soul.
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@nataliaa273
There you go. He said it. They can stop themselves. They don’t want to. They enjoy hurting others.
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@danae-rain3019
They ruin lives. So much lost potential. So unnecessary. It is bewildering.
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@mare7829
I work in a preschool ages 1 to 5. Let me tell u some babies are dangerous, mean, non feeling. We see it maybe 1 in 25 kids. They don't change. We just keep the other kids safe and when they get older and get hurt by this child i tell them to stay so many feet from them. They will listen when they have gotten hurt multiple times. The teachers try over and over to have this child to understand his/her behavior to no avail. It is their personality from the start. So what i teach their friends is be aware when playing with them.
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@janberger4057
Something that I have learned to do, is when someone in my sphere seems to be exhibiting bad behavior, I start writing notes about my encounters so that I can determine if there is a pattern and what the pattern looks like. It has been incredibly helpful for me to determine if the person is exhibiting toxic behaviors on a regular basis or if we have simply had a miscommunication. Growing up, I was encouraged to give people " the benefit of the doubt," which can encourage chronic bad behavior.
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@ABD-po9xf
The person that was in my life, when confronted with dismissing, withdrawl, coldness for punishment admitted in the heat of the moment "yeah, I do it intentionally, it's better than what I really want to do to you". In a follow up conversation he denied denied denied. His words were carefully chosen, his actions always had a motive and his treatment was calculated based on my triggers, fear of abandonment was used the most. They are self aware, dangerous and evil.
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@robinantonio8870
The fact they choose their victims and dont do it to everyone proves they can stop themselves if they want to.
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@snell1476
They ENJOY hurting people and tricking people
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@VelvetJazz
ABOUT FRICKIN’ TIME!!!! SO sick of hearing that THEY are victims based on whatever. 🤮 They CHOOSE…
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@christineribone9351
Most hurt people DON'T hurt people
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@shucksful
The “Trauma” is their lack of concern for crossing your personal boundaries, based on their selfishness to get what THEY WANT, and be damned your personal perspective on things. It hurts, and becomes more traumatic with each selfish offense.
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@davashorb6116
I was really little the first time I really saw the malevolence in them I felt like I was leaving my body. Once you see it, you can't unsee it. Decades later, they're still naturally mean.
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@Angela-bz8sw
People who consistently harm you - know exactly what they’re doing — because they keep doing it. Who cares what the "intellects'' name it - get away!
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