Narcissists’ Texting Tactics Revealed

DoctorRamani

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Comments (728)

  1. @DoctorRamani

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    26 likes

  2. @gchang916

    Narcs want you to treat them the way they will never treat you.

    244 likes

  3. @mnot952

    Dr. Ramani! I watched your content for 8 months, and i learned so much from you. It took a lot of courage, but I went no contact and cut those narc people off. It’s been almost a year, and I can’t explain to you how much my life has improved since! My bp is no longer abnormal, and I’m able to enjoy life with my family again. It was a difficult process , especially that I had to deal with the smearing campaign and isolation ,but I would do it all over again if I have to. To everyone who’s dealing with this: You only have one life to live, don’t let them be in charge of it.

    261 likes

  4. @gmnelson4116

    They say the MEANEST things
    then attempt to rationalize

    164 likes

  5. @zmesopotamia6792

    They want their "punching bag" back, and texting tactics are one of many forms of retrieving that bag.

    207 likes

  6. @vanessaruiz85

    They know exactly what they are doing it’s an inhumane, evil, cruel, behavior and what you do is RUN when you see these patterns!

    180 likes

  7. @vikkinusser9307

    I've been divorced from a narcissist and moved 700 miles away for 5 years, no contact. I'm still plagued by memories both good and bad. What you said about the fisherman was so profoundly accurate!! I don't need to watch your videos as often as I used to, but I still need them periodically. They're like AA meetings for survivors. Thank you so much!!!❤

    68 likes

  8. @PeaceTruthandLove

    Once you realize you will NEVER please a narc you’re on your way to freedom. Put as much distance as you can between you & this person!!

    24 likes

  9. @Justtogetsomeclarity

    I am always told “ What is the purpose of you having a phone, because you never answer me when I call or text you?” Yet he can disappear or disregard your messages or calls whenever they feel like it for hours. It’s so exhausting and such a waste of time!

    161 likes

  10. @NeliaBethany

    the victim tends to texts too much or explain too much too

    69 likes

  11. @TrippFoxtail

    I was lulled into sharing a personally painful memory and the narc almost immediately weaponized it and used it against me, then played the victim. I'm done now. Lesson learned.

    90 likes

  12. @strongallalong89

    One thing I’ve noticed (between the 3 narcissists I’ve ended up with over the years) is they love to ignore your texts. And they love sharing links/videos/reels, especially in a passive aggressive manner. They let the video get the point across that they want you to hear, but they don’t want to say it directly.

    123 likes

  13. @tinaleigh3273

    This woman is truly a GOD send❗️🙏🏽✨️

    81 likes

  14. @JmsLnd9

    Dr Ramani said "You text them about something where you need a reply. And they don't reply because it's not important to them". I think that's true, but it's more than that. The narcissist's relationship with you is about control and domination. Whenever you ask them for ANYTHING, their first instinct is to not give it to you, as a way of maintaining control and dominance. So in this case, by texting your question, you're asking them for a response, and their first instinct is to not give it to you.

    65 likes

  15. @svenjahartwig535

    Also: they don’t say „how are you?“ but „hope you are fine.“

    46 likes

  16. @daytimenumberofthebeast959

    The wall of text is just another technique of "if you cant blind them with brilliance, baffle them with BS."

    39 likes

  17. @markangelagirard9944

    The golden rule just doesn't apply to these special people.

    26 likes

  18. @vicstark8782

    Not even texting, just in general, when you need a question answered, they refuse to answer it or you ask a question and they just start talking about something else , completely unrelated , and the more pertinent your question , the more they won't answer it.

    41 likes

  19. @dianehasse8700

    You explained this perfectly. I was ra8sed by two narcissist parents, my twin is the malignant narcissist. I am 65, and 3 years in counseling to break this chain. And I listen to your podcast cast all the time. Thank you as the escape goat, its been a log road

    7 likes

  20. @playswithflowers72

    I've given soooo much of myself to this relationship/marriage, it's pathetic. I can't afford to leave just yet, however, I've started getting my personal life back. He can't stand it, and I don't care. I listen to Dr Ramani everyday. Sometimes the same clips and video's over again, either way, it's taught me so much.

    14 likes