Do these 5 things AFTER a narcissistic relationship

DoctorRamani

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Comments (1,824)

  1. @youngblood8540

    A narcissistic relationship starts off like a beautiful dream and then it slowly turns into the worst of nightmares.

    2.3K likes

  2. @jodileonard5491

    I was in a narcissistic relationship for 48 years and left 3 weeks ago 😳

    650 likes

  3. @rebeccadavis1410

    After 13 years of abuse, it took me two years to start feeling more like myself again. I'm now 12 years single and loving it!

    298 likes

  4. @heywut

    Forgiving myself for not seeing it is really, really hard

    121 likes

  5. @Dead_Stars_Music

    I will die alone rather than doing that shit again. 2024 the year of spiritual awakenings and self love. i think 12 months is a short time to take and the more i think about it i need to find me heal me learn to love me. the whole thing has been so traumatic its going to take time to heal.

    628 likes

  6. @cynthiaarcher6602

    I’m shocked ANYONE is willing to trust another person in a relationship ever again!

    95 likes

  7. @broomzelda

    My narc mom told me I would fall flat on my face when I bought my own home in my 20s and moved out. I did not. I was alone for 7 years, Years later when leaving an abusive 23 year marriage my husband told me I would fall flat on my face without him. That was 7 years ago. I still need to visit my counsellor occasionally after several years of counselling but I have not fallen flat on my face.

    946 likes

  8. @hennacrylic

    9 days no contact. Grieving the person I thought he was, grieving the future I thought I had- its a lot… wish there was a fast forward button!

    390 likes

  9. @demigaines5644

    1/ Going No Contact..
    2/. Educating Yourself About Narcissistic Abuse.
    3/ Learning Self Care
    4/ Start Setting Boundaries
    5/. Set Time Limits On Ruminating..
    6/ Bonus
    Allowing Yourself To Grieve

    588 likes

  10. @B3nG420

    Once you get out it really makes you realize how beautiful life is. ❤

    25 likes

  11. @VictoriaRose-k7b

    I was married to a narcissist for 34 years. We ran two successful businesses together. I convinced myself that I led a charmed life. As my husband aged it became so much worse. In the end I was terrified of him. Never physical abuse but the psychological abuse was a nightmare. I finally had the courage to leave and initiate divorce proceedings. I still didn't know about this syndrome, but watching your videos was like you had been following me around for the last 20 years. The divorce was going to be terrible and expensive. Then he unexpectedly died. It seems an awful thing to say what a relief but really??? Since then your videos have been enormously helpful for me in understanding what I have been through. Thank you.

    207 likes

  12. @juliekim9692

    I have been married to a narcissist for 27 years. I thought if only I did everything he told me I needed to do to be a better person, that I was going to be a better person. But that day never happened. At least in his eyes. I have now signed a contract with a Divorce lawyer. I don’t know how long this whole process will take, but I have never felt more self-love than I have felt in 27 years. And yes, I am very proud of myself!

    126 likes

  13. @veronica5888

    Dr. Ramani it's been 2 years and that still isn't enough time. I feel great being with me, the introvert. Taking better care of me feels great!

    203 likes

  14. @marketavalkova254

    10 years single after 20 years marriage

    32 likes

  15. @jrooneo9496

    Grieving the loss of innocence to intentional evil.

    120 likes

  16. @deborah-w4m

    Married in 1973 divorced 2021 I have struggled for years; he went to his "own" room and "never" came out for over 20 years. I am now 71 and have struggled with who "I" am for most of my life. It is so much work to try and recover and figure "out who I am" but I am working on it day by day.

    65 likes

  17. @xen1995

    I kept telling myself I was ready for a relationship, 3 months after a breakup (7 year relationship). I have just realized my new partner is a narcissist, and I am broken again. 12 month detox is CRUCIAL, and if the person is your soul mate, they will wait. Make friendships and find yourself again ❤

    182 likes

  18. @keithphoenix5296

    I didn’t even realize I was in a 25 year mentally abusive relationship with a narcissist until she left me for a boy have my age
    The horror stories my kids have told me about their childhood
    Your videos are really helping me get through tough times
    Been no contact for two months now and it seems to be working great
    No more making excuses for her
    No more bailing her out of trouble
    I had horrible stomach pains most of my life. All of a sudden they’re gone.
    I’ve never been closer with my kids
    Thank you

    34 likes

  19. @CS-iv8tk

    My biggest grievance is falling in love with a pretender

    113 likes

  20. @Fkr523

    I feel like narcist gives everything away from you, including your personality. You have no idea what you feel, what you want, what’s good and what’s bad.

    29 likes