20 Gaslighting Phrases From The Narcissist

Caroline Strawson

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Have you ever felt like your emotions were dismissed or invalidated by someone close to you? The manipulative tactic known as gaslighting is often used by narcissists to undermine your sense of reality.

Narcissists are driven by a deep-seated need for control and validation and use gaslighting as a means to maintain power over you.
This is a form of emotional abuse that chips away at your confidence, making you question your own perceptions and experiences.
The narcissist's goal is to create a parallel reality where you become reliant on their version of events, ultimately losing touch with your own sense of self.
By recognising the signs of gaslighting, you will take the first step towards reclaiming your autonomy and break free from the narcissist's grip.
Staying vigilant for phrases that dismiss, minimise, or deny your reality is crucial in identifying this manipulative behaviour. With self-awareness and access to support, you can begin the journey of healing and personal transformation, ultimately finding the light at the end of the tunnel.

Key topics covered in this episode:
Understanding gaslighting and its impact on victims
The nature of trauma and personal transformation
Common gaslighting phrases used by narcissists
The psychological impact of gaslighting on victims
Resources and support for those experiencing narcissistic abuse

0:00 Understanding Gaslighting and Its Impact
0:33 The Nature of Trauma and Personal Transformation
1:56 Introduction to Gaslighting Phrases
6:42 Common Gaslighting Phrases
9:11 More Gaslighting Techniques
11:15 Advanced Gaslighting Tactics
17:33 The Psychological Impact of Gaslighting
18:07 Support and Resources for Victims

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Comments (9)

  1. @bonniebossert7483

    I was continually told that "I don't know how to "Let Go of the Past"... Usually said after the other person was caught cheating, lying, hiding purchases, etc.

    10 likes

  2. @TRUTHfanclubpres

    Just got told “you have a delusional way of looking at things” and this video pops up immediately after…… I need the reminder of your lessons. Glad to see this video ❤

    5 likes

  3. @jocelynclifford

    “It’s always about you!” “ you’re always repeating yourself” “I don’t care!” “You’re going through a tough time, so am I! Stop thinking about yourself! You’re nothing special!” “You’re a narcissist!” “You’re a pathological liar!” “You’re so selfish!” “You’re always trying to manipulate me with your fake tears!” “ just apologise for what you did instead of explaining yourself and take some accountability! “

    That is some triggers and things I endured through the gaslighting stage because I told the truth and stood up for myself

    3 likes

  4. @CaptainVelveeta

    My ex-gf would explain what happened and why I should not be upset and while she was recalling what happened she would leave out the slighest little detail that the average person wouldn't even notice but it would be just enough to change the entire dynamic of the truth...SO frustrating...remembering things how they want to remember them.

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  5. @ashutosh_1234-j1s

    Hey ! I can only say ! Thankyouu very much !

  6. @YashPatil-r9j

    20 phrases of gaslighting

    You are too sensitive
    That never happened
    You are overreacting
    You are imagining things
    I never said that
    You are just trying to start a fight
    You are crazy ,everyone thinks so
    You are remembering it wrong
    I was just joking
    Stop being so dramatic
    You are the only one having problem with this
    Why can't you take a joke
    You are always making things up
    It's your fault
    You are just insecure
    I am sorry you feel that way
    You make something out of nothing
    Everyone else agrees with me
    You too emotional
    I am the only one who loves you nobody can love you the way I do

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  7. @orionmondragon617

    Do you have any insights to the differences between a male and female narcissist? I'm trying to deal with my narcissistic ex-wife and this video kept hitting so many times for me, but I almost never see anything about female narcissists.

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