Finding Confidence in Conflict | Kwame Christian | TEDxDayton

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Director of the American negotiation Institute, Kwame teaches us about an alternative way to resolve conflict. Kwame Christian is a business lawyer and the director of the American Negotiation Institute. In this role, he serves as a negotiation consultant for attorneys and for companies closing large business deals. He also conducts live training sessions for organizations. Kwame hosts the podcast “Negotiate Anything,” where he interviews successful professionals and shares powerful persuasion techniques. With over 140,000 downloads and listeners in 140 countries, it is the top-ranked negotiation and dispute-resolution podcast in the nation. Kwame is the proud husband of Dr. Whitney Christian and father of Kai Christian This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

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  1. @MrDonDon-n4g

    "We are fighting modern day battles with pre historic tools" very well said

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  2. @Enj0y_Every_Sandw1ch

    this is probably the best Ted talk I've ever seen. imho
    "A lot of times, the other side is blissfully unaware of the impact that their behavior has on us... and this is precisely why it is OUR responsibility to STAND UP and SAY Something if we really care about the relationship and we really care about making positive change." - so many times have I thought that the other party should just know their impact... that they should read my mind.

    36 likes

  3. @onewomanslife

    This man is outstanding. Why are crazy people in government when we could have fine souls like this one steering the ship of state?

    333 likes

  4. @adamsell2675

    What an amazing presentation. I saw myself in this man's struggle and was able to help guide my son with his conflict at school. Great gems of wisdom and compassion.

    48 likes

  5. @DanHannaford

    I’ve learned through my experiences that peace isn’t the absence of conflict but the presence of understanding, harmony & cooperation. True peace comes from facing problems with patience, courage & kindness. Disagreements can become lessons that help people grow, connect & strengthen relationships. When people listen openly & treat others with respect, challenges turn into chances to build lasting peace within ourselves, our relationships & our communities.

    3 likes

  6. @ErnestLevertJr

    Cinnamon Toast Crunch is Life. Thank you for making this potentially complex and intimidating concept so relatable!

    53 likes

  7. @jenayarenea

    I've never related to an intro so much in my life

    60 likes

  8. @IAmBlackSuccess

    Kwame, I've watched this video over and over. There's some amazing humor, research, and anecdotes that helped us connect to your message. I can't reiterate enough how great this was.

    71 likes

  9. @andrealynetta3733

    Cant explain how grateful I am for coming across this video. I’m dealing with avoiding conflict with my partner and want to work on myself to stop myself doing this (shutting down) . Had the same experience when younger with forming relationships and now have a better understanding 🙏🏾

    11 likes

  10. @jshskylark

    What an utterly captivating guy! Loved the message and was so engrossed with how he put it across. Great talk.

    12 likes

  11. @pokaiwin

    Glad to listen to your lecture 30mins before I am going to fight with a colleague to negotiate my rights, still a little stressed, but I need to be brave, not matter the result at least I expressed my feelings

    5 likes

  12. @DaCatmasterX

    Anyone else here from CCV?

    2 likes

  13. @RichardSylvainMedia

    from Negotiate Anything to Big Swings Only ,Kwame i'm happy I finally made time to check this out

  14. @candykandy

    Shoutout to all the people watching this to deal with negative people they can’t avoid

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  15. @LeadDontBoss

    Great talk Kwame! Truly an honour to have you on my podcast today. Can't wait to publish and get your message out to more people!

    4 likes

  16. @jimandnitikaennion2230

    This is the most impacting on my personal life TED talk I've heard. Thank you!

    2 likes

  17. @mamohatoaskew830

    Thank you Brother.

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  18. @karolina2406

    Kwame was an amazing speaker at a Leadersgip Conference in my company today. Came to check out his Ted talk and signed up for his Negotiate Anything podcast too. I don't ever listen to podcasts but he was so impressive and I think I can learn a lot from him. Thank you Kwame!

    12 likes

  19. @arlinegeorge6967

    Great great talk . Modern society teaches us to achieve by agreeing to dis agree. Conflict is indeed a opportunity. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

    6 likes

  20. @Divineshot

    Great talk. Hope everyone is having an awesome evening! :)

    58 likes